How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 04:28
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why do girls in Indian top colleges wear shorts?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What happens to single guys when they get older?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What 10 things have you stopped doing in your life?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
That's it for today.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What's a band that is really popular that you don't like? Why?
Making more friends is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Here's Why This Year Will Be "Different" For Taylor Swift And Travis Kelce - BuzzFeed
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Ask yourself:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Microsoft's OpenAI partnership is fraying at the seams - Axios
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Does not procrastinate.
How do you know how physically attractive you actually are?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Do snipers lay on top of tank turrets during combat?
What I need from you?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What's a memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.